If it were not for some very key coaches in my life, I would not be where I’m at today and living my infinite potential. Coaches are people with a particular skill set that can give instruction or advice.
These people I hold in the highest regard and put in my life for brief moments. They said little but helped me fundamentally transform my life. They helped pull out what I already knew as truth. I am called to be this to others.
The first coach during my transformation process was my first sponsor. We were on the same intellectual and spiritual plain and shared some painful experiences. This relationship was where I first saw the power of a coach.
He supported me in a very challenging phase of my life. First through getting clean and finally filing for divorce. As soon as I filed he vanished into thin air. He straight up got me through he worst time of my life!
I have learned to be open-minded to where I will find coaches in life. I have learned to step away from stereotypes and see the value someone might bring into my life. They can have different political, religious or philosophical views than I. They might have an experience in an area I need to learn.
I want what they have
My business coach, Amber, is a good example who someone who had experience with what I wanted. She works with authors, speakers, and coaches. I have never branded myself or had an Internet business, so I hired her. When she talks I listen. I took some transformational steps with her coaching.
You are the average of the five people you spend the most time
I select wisely! I only have coaches and co-creators in my life. Coaches are a great addition to help you be the best you possible and elevate the average.
The world’s best use coaches
Do you want to be the best you? Instead of naming all the big names who use coaches, I will ask you to find the ones that don’t have coaches?
We cannot grow outside of relationship and coaches are a great way to ensure growth in specific areas. If we can determine what kind of life you want to create, you need the right people there to help get you there.
I think people assume they need to find people to help them because something is broke. To the contrary! Image a place where you excel, image what you can do with help to take you to the next level. That is what the world’s best do.
Unfortunately, all suffer life situations. Coaches are a necessity for helping us bring a quick resolution in those life situations.
Who got you here will not get you there
I came to realize with a bit of clean-time that the 12-step recovery groups could not get me to where I needed to go. I had to leave recovery because it was no longer the problem I suffered.
Through my divorce, I had to find some support in the church-based support groups, like DivorceCare. After that, I had to keep moving. I am now taking what I have learned and sharing it with the world. I have developed different types of groups and brought others into my circle where our goals align.
Each phase was a different group of people that is constantly evolving and changing. I do not fight this change. God’s universe will put people in your life to help you create, but if you are not open, you might be missing something.
What is your next step?
I am working with people who want to live their infinite potential. The only differences between those that have transformations and those that don’t are their beliefs in the possible and the intention behind those beliefs.
I want to work with others who do not wish to settle for mediocre lives but to work towards creating an abundantly thriving lives. I want to work with co-creators.
If this intrigues you submit an application for a coaching conversation to see if I can be of service to you.