I had no idea how much the old belief system that I had from childhood carried so much weight in how I was currently living my life. My beliefs were running the show and automatically making all the decisions for me without me even realizing or aware of it. I knew that I was stuck, but I didn’t how to get unstuck.
Steve helped facilitate the awareness of where my old beliefs came from. I didn’t even know I had a belief that didn’t serve me. This has created a huge impact in my life. It has made me realize why certain things in my life were not working and why parts of my life felt so heavy and hard. During our session, we destroyed an old belief that carried with me from my childhood and created a new belief that feels good with who I am becoming and with what I want to create in my life.
“I receive love and attention from myself” is exactly the new belief that will help love myself more and guide me in living a life that feels more free and empowering to my soul.
Crying on a coaching call is usually a great sign that something powerful was revealed. It was such a real aha moment to realize that all my actions had so much to do with trying to get attention and love from other people. Once I realized that I felt more empowered to make decisions based on my new belief. I felt a sense of relief that my old belief didn’t have to run the show anymore. I felt better about myself and any future decisions from my new belief. I felt more love for myself. I also felt embarrassed on what this belief created in my life. But Steve told me not to judge it and love it. Once I did that, I came to accepting that part of myself too. Then from that place, I was able to just really appreciate and be thankful for this new powerful belief that will I now operate under and be part of the life I want to create the life I know. That felt good!
When something heavy is lifted off me and all of a sudden, I feel lighter. I usually feel myself shining brighter from within. As another layer of myself is being revealed to my true essence. It felt like I had a breakthrough moment when I realized that most of my life, I was making decisions or not making certain decisions based on getting attention and love from other people. To become aware of where that stems from is also super liberating and freeing. Freeing because I know have the power to change how I operate in the world that will serve me in the highest of way vs. from a place of lower vibration, neediness, and my lower self.
The shift was realizing that I didn’t need anything outside of myself to change the way I feel. I can totally go within to find all that I seek. If only I had this information when I was younger, my life would have turned out very different. Even so, it was all a perfect process. It’s never too late. 🙂
I just want to add that you have a gift Steve to get to people’s core wounds and create something beautiful out of it. You do that by genuinely caring about the person you are talking to and shifting their reality to something that will be the most serving to them moving their life forward in the best way possible. What I shared here was just from one conversation I had with you. Since I had many conversations with you, you have given me the gift of awareness and the power to change it.
Our powerful conversations created so many shifts in me. These shifts feel super exciting to live life from this perspective or a different lens. Life starts to flow a lot more and things just becomes easier when you look at life and yourself in a fresh new way. I will always be super grateful to you Steve. Thank you.